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How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Klara » Mon Feb 12, 2018 4:58 am

As you know, I have somewhat limited experience with functioning long-term relationships.

So tell me. How long should one realistically expect one's partner to lovingly run their fingers up and down one's back until one falls asleep every night? Things like that.
A few months? More?

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lulu » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:01 am

You're kind of a relationship expert here Klara.

Can you give us more detail?
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Klara » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:02 am

Lulu wrote:
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You're kind of a relationship expert here Klara.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lulu » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:05 am

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by section8 » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:07 am

Every night? That’s a lot of rubbing. I’d say a few months.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lulu » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:13 am

Klarissa, do you have someone who runs his fingers up and down back every night?

Srsly, for long term happy relationships, ask k2w3 and stan in maryland
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Klara » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:24 am

I do, yes. Well, when he's here for the night. I realise this is all very temporary, but I was wondering how long before it all becomes about laundry and what to have for dinner.

Good idea. Let's wait til Stan gets up.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lulu » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:28 am

Perhaps turn a oneball cold shoulder to your finger prancing dude
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lost Soul » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:28 am

Early fucking mode lasts one to three months. Which is enough, as far as the species is concerned.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lulu » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:33 am

Yet it's helpful if the male indicates enough interest, at least as far as the human species is concerned, for anywhere from two to twelve years (primitive) or 20 - 30 (modern libtard era)

That's a whole lotta back rubs
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Citizen Baba » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:38 am

Usually through the fourth date.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lulu » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:42 am

That hippie boy keeps surprising me. Almost 4 mos now of increasing gratification.

One never knows.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Klara » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:51 am

Citizen Baba wrote:
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Usually through the fourth date.
Ah. I'm fucked, then.

Dunno. I got used to having a decent sex life now that I'm single. Do I want to ruin that by being in a relationship? #scarredforlife

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Citizen Baba » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:54 am

Wait until the wave starts to break, then jump off.

That said, I hope to be with mine for a long time.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by northern_goddess » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:59 am

The daily backrubs tapered off after about a year or so. That doesn't mean they ended though. In fact I unexpectedly got one while we were sitting on the couch earlier tonight. And to top it all off he's got a really terrible cold and feeling awful. And, that's after almost 8 years.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lost Soul » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:03 am

Citizen Baba wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:54 am
Wait until the wave starts to break, then jump off.

That said, I hope to be with mine for a long time.
Like the 5th date?
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by ExPat From Hell » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:07 am

At 18 months we remain head over heels in love. And massages are increasing, not decreasing.

My aunts and uncles remained wildly in love until their deaths. Always having to touch each other, hold a hand, high five. I want that.

I think it depends on the depth of your love for each other. Not on the duration.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lulu » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:09 am

More than back rubs, I like it most when the man keeps pulling me in close even while I'm trying to pull away.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Scrubb » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:10 am

Yeah, it's like n_g says, really. No, he doesn't rub my back every night. Yes, he does it every time he notices me looking sore or massaging my own neck while I sit. Or if I ask.

If he's awake when I go to bed, there are a few minutes of snuggling.

When I was having hot flashes every evening, he'd jump up and bring me an ice pack/freezer bag. Every time.

He still tries to pick up food that I'll like when he does the grocery shopping. And I get treats for him.

He makes little gestures all the time. Sometimes really little, but they're there. And vice versa.

And that's after living together for 20 years and 2 months.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lost Soul » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:11 am

Lulu wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:09 am
More than back rubs, I like it most when the man keeps pulling me in close even while I'm trying to pull away.
Further evidence that no doesn't always mean no.

Now let's ruin every man's life.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Citizen Baba » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:15 am

Lost Soul wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:03 am
Citizen Baba wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:54 am
Wait until the wave starts to break, then jump off.

That said, I hope to be with mine for a long time.
Like the 5th date?
If you count up every stint, we’re probably on the 200th.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lulu » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:18 am

Lost Soul wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:11 am
Lulu wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:09 am
More than back rubs, I like it most when the man keeps pulling me in close even while I'm trying to pull away.
Further evidence that no doesn't always mean no.

Now let's ruin every man's life.
I'm talking about after we're already gettin nekkid regularly, and I don't know what he wants emotionally. It's an assertion of affection, not a demand for 3rd date payment
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lulu » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:19 am

Citizen Baba wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:15 am
Lost Soul wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:03 am
Citizen Baba wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:54 am
Wait until the wave starts to break, then jump off.

That said, I hope to be with mine for a long time.
Like the 5th date?
If you count up every stint, we’re probably on the 200th.
Is she the reason you came back early from Lebanon, CB?
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lost Soul » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:22 am

Lulu wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:18 am
Lost Soul wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:11 am
Lulu wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:09 am
More than back rubs, I like it most when the man keeps pulling me in close even while I'm trying to pull away.
Further evidence that no doesn't always mean no.

Now let's ruin every man's life.
I'm talking about after we're already gettin nekkid regularly, and I don't know what he wants emotionally. It's an assertion of affection, not a demand for 3rd date payment
Can you spare a thought for the blokes in this toxic age?
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Citizen Baba » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:25 am

Lulu wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:19 am
Citizen Baba wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:15 am
Lost Soul wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:03 am

Like the 5th date?
If you count up every stint, we’re probably on the 200th.
Is she the reason you came back early from Lebanon, CB?
I didn’t come back early.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lulu » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:27 am

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Yes, but please explain because we are probably thinking of different scenarios. I am just sayin, after being pounded by men over the last year, to have someone around who after several hammerings ignores my defensive postures of shoving him away, keeps pulling me in physically and verbally and won't let me go - it's delicious.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by section8 » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:28 am

Well, if you are only seeing him every once in a while extend the timeline to about six months.
This is the only musical: the mouth. And hopefully the brain attached to the mouth. Right? The brain, more important than the mouth, is the brain. The brain is much more important.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lulu » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:29 am

Citizen Baba wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:25 am
Lulu wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:19 am
Citizen Baba wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:15 am


If you count up every stint, we’re probably on the 200th.
Is she the reason you came back early from Lebanon, CB?
I didn’t come back early.
Oh well
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by rezuar » Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:11 am

Scrubb wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:10 am
Yeah, it's like n_g says, really. No, he doesn't rub my back every night. Yes, he does it every time he notices me looking sore or massaging my own neck while I sit. Or if I ask.

If he's awake when I go to bed, there are a few minutes of snuggling.

When I was having hot flashes every evening, he'd jump up and bring me an ice pack/freezer bag. Every time.

He still tries to pick up food that I'll like when he does the grocery shopping. And I get treats for him.

He makes little gestures all the time. Sometimes really little, but they're there. And vice versa.

And that's after living together for 20 years and 2 months.
Awwwww, that’s lovely, Scrubb!

Klara, I’ve no advice, obviously, but why should relationship exclude decent sexlife?
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lost Soul » Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:18 am

Lulu wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:33 am
Yet it's helpful if the male indicates enough interest, at least as far as the human species is concerned, for anywhere from two to twelve years (primitive) or 20 - 30 (modern libtard era)

That's a whole lotta back rubs
Government is the modern partner for all single mothers on welfare. He doesn't give you back rubs, but he does give you a raise in your welfare if you manage to get knocked up by a l00ser, as women are wont to do.

The goal, of course, is total dependency on Government Daddy, so you'll vote for more government to expand the ghettos; the children be damned.
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Post by Klara » Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:22 am

ExPat From Hell wrote:
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My aunts and uncles remained wildly in love until their deaths. Always having to touch each other, hold a hand, high five. I want that.
My parents are like that. Well they don't high five, obviously. But yeah, that's what I thought a normal relationship was like and I expected to have one like that too. How naive of me.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Citizen Baba » Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:28 am

Lost Soul wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:18 am
Lulu wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:33 am
Yet it's helpful if the male indicates enough interest, at least as far as the human species is concerned, for anywhere from two to twelve years (primitive) or 20 - 30 (modern libtard era)

That's a whole lotta back rubs
Government is the modern partner for all single mothers on welfare. He doesn't give you back rubs, but he does give you a raise in your welfare if you manage to get knocked up by a l00ser, as women are wont to do.

The goal, of course, is total dependency on Government Daddy, so you'll vote for more government to expand the ghettos; the children be damned.
There should be a rule that you have to had unpaid-for sex in the past five years to participate in these threads.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lost Soul » Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:35 am

Citizen Baba wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:28 am
Lost Soul wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:18 am
Lulu wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:33 am
Yet it's helpful if the male indicates enough interest, at least as far as the human species is concerned, for anywhere from two to twelve years (primitive) or 20 - 30 (modern libtard era)

That's a whole lotta back rubs
Government is the modern partner for all single mothers on welfare. He doesn't give you back rubs, but he does give you a raise in your welfare if you manage to get knocked up by a l00ser, as women are wont to do.

The goal, of course, is total dependency on Government Daddy, so you'll vote for more government to expand the ghettos; the children be damned.
There should be a rule that you have to had unpaid-for sex in the past five years to participate in these threads.
Meanwhile, the ghettos are filled with unmarried women with destroyed kids, on the third generation now.

Keep doing the same thing while expecting different results, insane Dumbocrats.
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Post by DCComic » Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:37 am

If the back thing is a metaphor for casual displays of affection;

Why should it stop?
Half of you people are fucked up jaded nutballs.


If you literally want tne back thing to happen every night, one day it won’t and you’ll incinerate a (maybe) perfectly good relationship. What do you do for another person with that level of monotony? Even mother/child relationships develop over time.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Citizen Baba » Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:38 am

Onanism doesn’t count, Las, even if you tie yourself up first.

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Post by Citizen Baba » Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:41 am

To Lost Soul, necrophilia means never having to say you’re sorry.

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Post by Klara » Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:45 am

Oyy DC, you're so literal!



Do try to focus, LostSoul. This thread is about backrubs and relationships and stuff.

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Post by Citizen Baba » Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:47 am

Klara - He wants to contribute, but doesn’t know anything about it exept what he heard in a Badfinger song.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Lost Soul » Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:51 am

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To Lost Soul, necrophilia means never having to say you’re sorry.
What, no Nazi reference? You're really slipping, Sigh.

And you are most assuredly ignorant of Dogwin's Law: the first idiot who uses necrophilia as an ad hom loses, unemployed l00ser.
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Post by Klara » Mon Feb 12, 2018 8:07 am

rezuar wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:11 am
Klara, I’ve no advice, obviously, but why should relationship exclude decent sexlife?
I wasn't being entirely serious, Rez. I was alluding to my only long term relationship, which, as we all know, was partially sexless.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by guruwil » Mon Feb 12, 2018 8:14 am

Klara wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:51 am
Citizen Baba wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:38 am
Usually through the fourth date.
Ah. I'm fucked, then.

Dunno. I got used to having a decent sex life now that I'm single. Do I want to ruin that by being in a relationship? #scarredforlife
Well we know your ex was a bit broken in that regard, but 90+% of all men will take sex whenever they can get it 90+% of the time. Now if you want loving small talk and back rubs and long cuddles afterwards that’s probably another matter.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

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Lost Soul wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:51 am
Citizen Baba wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:41 am
To Lost Soul, necrophilia means never having to say you’re sorry.
What, no Nazi reference? You're really slipping, Sigh.

And you are most assuredly ignorant of Dogwin's Law: the first idiot who uses necrophilia as an ad hom loses, unemployed l00ser.
Maybe it should read necrophilia means never having to give a back rub.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Klara » Mon Feb 12, 2018 9:02 am

guruwil wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 8:14 am
Klara wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:51 am
Citizen Baba wrote:
Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:38 am
Usually through the fourth date.
Ah. I'm fucked, then.

Dunno. I got used to having a decent sex life now that I'm single. Do I want to ruin that by being in a relationship? #scarredforlife
Well we know your ex was a bit broken in that regard, but 90+% of all men will take sex whenever they can get it 90+% of the time. Now if you want loving small talk and back rubs and long cuddles afterwards that’s probably another matter.
I thought so.
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Post by DCComic » Mon Feb 12, 2018 9:08 am

90+% of all men will take sex whenever they can get it 90+% of the time.
Or at least that's the excuse the cunt-hounds make to excuse themselves - "it's our nature - we're all the same - whaaaah."
Then they come back and complain to anyone who'll listen that the latest lunatic they found in a bar on on an app is pregnant or stole their curtains or their stash or their flat.

90% of people are reasonable decent humans who don't make thrilling movies or entertaining soap operas.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Klara » Mon Feb 12, 2018 9:12 am

Rough morning?


I fell off my bike due to freakin snow 20 minutes ago and I'm still my usual cheerful self.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by guruwil » Mon Feb 12, 2018 9:26 am

DCComic wrote:
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90+% of all men will take sex whenever they can get it 90+% of the time.
Or at least that's the excuse the cunt-hounds make to excuse themselves - "it's our nature - we're all the same - whaaaah."
Then they come back and complain to anyone who'll listen that the latest lunatic they found in a bar on on an app is pregnant or stole their curtains or their stash or their flat.

90% of people are reasonable decent humans who don't make thrilling movies or entertaining soap operas.
I think you have assumed a lot more from my comment than what I meant. This was in the context of a consenting relationship as outlined by Klara.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by k2w3 » Mon Feb 12, 2018 9:53 am

The good stuff shouldn't end. It might change tack a few times. Sense of humour is good to have, and gently teasing each other - mentally not physically, although that's ok too. That's my recipe.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by Kikilamour » Mon Feb 12, 2018 12:07 pm

hmm. go for it klara. i think it goes in waves of a lot of interest and then some distance. don't be scared.

we just came back from a trip where he didn't want to do anything alone. i was dying to have alone time so i'd go for a massage or i was glad when he went scuba diving. now that we're back, he's off planning things with friends and going to band practice and i have no idea if we're even doing anything for valentine's day. (it's a shit commercial day, but you have to at least acknowledge it , right?)
I'm feeling blue being back from holidays. it's snowing. i feel isolated. work is not in full swing yet. i have a dentist appointment. it's all pretty blah. anyhoo, backrubs.

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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by TheRedWoman » Mon Feb 12, 2018 12:46 pm

All the touchy feeling stuff lasted almost 10 yrs in first marriage. We were joined at the hips and both of us wanted it that way at the time.
Now I need more alone time and think we should live in separate houses/countries.
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Re: How long does the good stuff last?

Post by BeatRaven » Mon Feb 12, 2018 12:48 pm

I get up earlier than her every morning and set up a filter coffee for her. If I come back upstairs from my office before she awakes, I'll restart the electric kettle so the water is at least warm for her when she gets up.

If I go downstairs and forget to set up the coffee, I come back up and do it. She comes down later and asks me if I want more green tea. She bought a kitchen timer so she can get it right.

We're a few thousand filter coffees down the road by now. Be with a giver, not another taker.
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