So long, Guvner

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So long, Guvner

Post by justinian » Sun Jan 21, 2018 5:55 pm

Guvner, aka Curtis, passed away last night after a hell of a fight with cancer. Incognita, Cowtown, and I had the opportunity to meet Curtis, his brother Rick, and a handful of friends and colleagues a few years ago in Chicago; there was a long weekend of booze, bocci ball, and board games.

Since then, Curtis and I have stayed in touch on social media. We both have sons around the same age, and most of our interactions involved not so humble brags about our boys. No doubt, Curtis loved his “Man Cub” Declan with every ounce of his being. He was so proud of all of his accomplishment, and from what I can see, Declan is a remarkable young man: an amazing legacy to a fantastic and loving father. Rest well, my friend.

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Post by leela » Sun Jan 21, 2018 5:58 pm

Oh this is so sad. I was lucky enough to meet Guv (and Rick) when he was in London. He was excellent company. It's hard to imagine him gone. He was far, far too young.
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Post by pezworld » Sun Jan 21, 2018 6:04 pm

Oh no. I know a lot of us were worried about him. Rest in peace, Curtis. All my warm thoughts to Declan and Rick and the rest of his family.
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Post by incognita » Sun Jan 21, 2018 6:09 pm

I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. He was much too young. My thoughts are with his family at this time.
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Post by muthafunky » Sun Jan 21, 2018 6:11 pm

RIP guv

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Post by brodie_bruce » Sun Jan 21, 2018 6:15 pm

Ahhhh shit, I too met up with Guv and Rick in London (it was a very pleasant, if somewhat boozy, evening). I have a feeling it started at The Victoria and progressed through several other pubs in the area.

Am really sorry to hear about his passing too.......
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Post by rezuar » Sun Jan 21, 2018 6:17 pm

Oh no. I’ve been thinking of guv a lot lately.

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Post by veronica_inheels » Sun Jan 21, 2018 6:19 pm

oh fuck. he was way too young. what a tragedy.
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Post by avalon_ » Sun Jan 21, 2018 6:33 pm

This is very sad news. He's so young and with a son. Ugh. I enjoyed his sense of humor and wit. RIP.

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Post by Lincoln » Sun Jan 21, 2018 6:42 pm

I'm a big fan of Guvner so this news truly sucks....i remember when he posted on here that he had cancer and his main reaction was "Shit ,I have a son"


Was Guvner a Brit?...he wrote like one.

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Post by northern_goddess » Sun Jan 21, 2018 7:01 pm

I'm pretty sure Guvner was a Canadian. And yes he was much too young. So sad for his family.
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Post by shunter » Sun Jan 21, 2018 7:09 pm

How old was he?
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Post by Scrubb » Sun Jan 21, 2018 8:14 pm

Thank you for letting us know, Justinian. I'm so, so sorry to hear the news. He was far too young (don't know exactly shunter, but in his mid 30s maybe? Possibly 40?) and he was so dedicated and devoted to his son. My deepest sympathies to his family.
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Post by Troll_Handle » Sun Jan 21, 2018 8:21 pm

Curtis was a really decent and good guy, I enjoyed meeting him and Rick in London a few years ago. (Rick - I'm the blonde one who cuddled the big dogs with you!)

Rick (and the rest of the family) - I'm so sorry for your terrible loss. His poor son having to grow up without such a loving father is incredibly sad, I hope you and your twin brother are able to keep a flow of stories about Curtis and your childhoods for him, he'll need uncles more than ever.

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Post by mad hatter » Sun Jan 21, 2018 8:37 pm

RIP Guv
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Post by shilgia » Sun Jan 21, 2018 8:51 pm

Very sad. I barely knew him, but it sounds like this was way too early.

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Post by Klara » Sun Jan 21, 2018 8:52 pm

Ahh this is so sad! Rip, Curtis.

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Post by DCComic » Sun Jan 21, 2018 8:54 pm

How awful.
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Post by guruwil » Sun Jan 21, 2018 9:03 pm

Very sad, my thoughts and best wishes to his family, and always tragic when kids are left behind, I hope his kids have lots of loving family around them.

Another one of us gone. So many of us have fallen over the years. I have definitely lost way mor here than in real life over the close to 2 decades, I guess that makes me very lucky IRL, but it does bring home your own mortality to you doesnt it.
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Post by Flora » Sun Jan 21, 2018 9:11 pm

Sad stuff.

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Post by Annotated » Sun Jan 21, 2018 9:14 pm

Terrible news.

Guv was always a good-humored and energetic presence here.

I hope he and his family found some peace with the shitty hand he was dealt.
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Post by TheRedWoman » Sun Jan 21, 2018 10:51 pm

urgh. RIP
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Post by polardude1 » Sun Jan 21, 2018 11:02 pm

RIP Guvnor. Fuck cancer!
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Post by Potpie » Sun Jan 21, 2018 11:04 pm

Oh no.

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Post by andybox » Sun Jan 21, 2018 11:14 pm

So sad, R.I.P. Gav.

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Post by Stephen_Dedalus » Sun Jan 21, 2018 11:16 pm

"I really don't deserve this"

I remember this from his last post, that I saw, about six months ago.

I wasn't worried for him as i assumed with him being young that this would hold him in good stead for the battle ahead.

Makes you think.

RIP mate.

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Post by erkat » Sun Jan 21, 2018 11:17 pm

So sorry.

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Post by VinnyD » Sun Jan 21, 2018 11:22 pm

You did a a good job conveying this sad news, justinian.

The rest of you, stay alive until I shuffle off this mortal coil and join the choir invisble, OK?

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Post by snowgirl » Sun Jan 21, 2018 11:27 pm

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Post by madmonday » Mon Jan 22, 2018 12:00 am

RIP Guvner...I am sure he fought it the best he could, condolences to family and friends.
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Post by Bastet » Mon Jan 22, 2018 12:10 am

So sad to hear.

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Post by sieve » Mon Jan 22, 2018 1:33 am

Sorry to hear this. Condolences to the family.
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Post by strife » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:09 am

Ah shit, sad news. I always liked the guy on here.
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Post by txgirl » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:56 am

I didn’t interact with Guvner but I do remember him posting about having cancer. That was really quick. I’m sad he lost the fight.

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Post by dragon » Mon Jan 22, 2018 3:23 am

Really really sad. RIP, Guvner.
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Post by RandomThoughts » Mon Jan 22, 2018 5:28 am

This is sad news. I hate cancer and I’m sorry Gunner wasn’t able to emerge victorious. This group is so small, each loss feels like we’ve lost family. My heart goes out to his family and everyone who loved him.
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Post by Bill Barilko » Mon Jan 22, 2018 5:30 am

Gone much too quickly.

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Post by micvan » Mon Jan 22, 2018 5:54 am

So sorry to hear this.

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Post by jessica_fletcher » Mon Jan 22, 2018 10:13 am

This is terrible, huge sympathies to his family.

I just want to say, hopefully without seeming an arse, that’s Curtis didn’t ‘lose a battle’, he didn’t ‘fight for as long as he could’, an incurable disease killed him.

Cancer is a cunt, and no one beats through choice. it’s just luck of the draw with what you get and how it gets treated. You survive, you’re fucking lucky.

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Post by Paddox1 » Mon Jan 22, 2018 1:05 pm

So sorry to hear this. Guvner was a good guy and will be much missed.

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Post by BeatRaven » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:08 pm

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Post by The Mallard Missie » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:38 pm

I can't recall interacting with him, maybe I did, maybe I didn't, but another sad loss.

Heartfelt condolences to his family and friends.

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Post by 5waldos » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:49 pm

Cancer sucks.

And I am so sorry for Guvner and his family. Reading back to the beginning of his post is so sad.

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Post by mishmish » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:53 pm

My sincere condolences to Guvner's family. I don't think we interacted much directly, but every ingredient lost here really seems to echo so loudly.

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Post by eric84 » Mon Jan 22, 2018 3:06 pm

I enjoyed his running exploits so I just assumed he would be in good shape for treating the cancer. So sad to hear this and that a teenaged son lost his dad. Hits close to home.
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Post by Stan In Maryland » Mon Jan 22, 2018 3:17 pm

I feel for his family and child. Sad news. Cancer certainly takes way to many from us.
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Post by Agent009 » Mon Jan 22, 2018 3:25 pm

Dude, guv was quality poster. Your insights will be mi55ed here.
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Post by cowtown » Mon Jan 22, 2018 4:18 pm

Wow, this sucks

He was a nice guy, very full of life and energy, fun to hang out with and he adored his son

Way too soon, I’ll remember him fondly

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Post by lolasf » Mon Jan 22, 2018 4:27 pm

Ah shit, so sorry to hear this news. RIP Guv.
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Post by truenic » Mon Jan 22, 2018 4:30 pm

Very sorry to hear this. My condolences to his family.

And thank you for letting us know justinian. I think we've all been wondering for awhile what happened.

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