Vacations for comfort, not adventure

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Vacations for comfort, not adventure

Post by BeatRaven » Sat Jul 07, 2018 11:32 am

Long not-bad article in the NY Times about how a guy learned to love the comfort/banality/chill factor of going on a cruise:

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/07/03/trav ... sContainer

Do you factor in more comfort these days when you travel? How much dissonance will you still put up with?

Obv, not too many hostel hangers on left here; what travel rough edges have you left behind? Reading about Leela and Ben springing for a long distance cab over the bus is def. something I'd budget for these days. Door to door is gold. I no longer think that he who wanders is not lost.

My own unique situation is that I live in luxury and still want it to be a bit hard/bare when I travel.

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Post by DCComic » Sat Jul 07, 2018 12:09 pm

Always do the best you can on the money you've got. Nobody is uncomfortable without a reason.
I'll never stay in a hostel, except when the only way to be where I want to be is stay in a hostel. I'll spring the extra for extended legroom and fast-track this and that, but paying for business seats doest add up to me. If a cruise got me to where I wanted to be at the right price (I've seen a couple that do) then a cruise is fine. Buses were never a love, but I might take a long train over a shorter more expensive taxi. Hiking is fun, camping is fun except on campsites. If there's a campsite there's a hotel.
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Post by Electrolyte » Sat Jul 07, 2018 7:54 pm

I saw that article. I felt sad for the author.

Wish I could go back 15 or more years, post this on Talk Politics, and see what happened. Have we grown up to become everything we mocked in our parents?

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Post by section8 » Thu Jul 12, 2018 3:00 pm

I factor in comfort a lot more now, but that’s possibly as much about traveling with a family as it is about me getting older. One thing I can’t do anymore, at all, is shared accommodations. If privacy is a form of comfort then that’s a major factor.
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Post by EMG » Thu Jul 12, 2018 5:01 pm

I don't stay in hostels. Never have, doubt I ever will. I really like nice hotels, but ultimately saving a few hundred dollars on a hotel this trip pays for my plane tickets on the next one. So I tend to go mid-range nice.

I will spring for private transport when it seems reasonable. For example: the bus from Manila to Angeles City is $3. It's a single shot on a fairly comfortable bus. I'll take the bus vs the $60 private ride. However, if it's a holiday and there's standing room only on the bus, and mob of 100 people shoving to get on each bus, I'll drop the $60. Or if it's $10 to take 6 hours worth of bus, jeep, tricycle, jeep, vs $60 for a private car, I'll sometimes go private there too.

I like riding motorbikes so I'll go motorbike frequently, even though riding a little underbone scooter can be fairly uncomfortable after a couple of hours.

I tend to travel very light with only a backpack, but that's for mobility convenience and not having to stand around a luggage carousel.

Probably would spend more on luxury if I could afford it. A weekend in nice hotels in Hong Kong and Macau and blowing some money in a casino and on expensive drinks is a great weekend for me.

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Post by Chip_Oatley » Thu Jul 12, 2018 5:04 pm

section8 wrote:
Thu Jul 12, 2018 3:00 pm
I factor in comfort a lot more now, but that’s possibly as much about traveling with a family as it is about me getting older. One thing I can’t do anymore, at all, is shared accommodations. If privacy is a form of comfort then that’s a major factor.
Twice in the past decade-- a. on that kayaking trip out of Anchorage and b. on a high-end wellness retreat in Oz--I ended up with freight train level women snorers right by me. That is a vacation killer. I cannot sleep with that going on, and I cannot function with f'd up sleep.

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Post by Electrolyte » Thu Jul 12, 2018 8:13 pm

Not sleeping among a heap of humanity in the aisle of an overnight train, paying $1 for a mattress on the rooftop with 50 other people, or subjecting ourselves to any of the other outragres that we did when we were young is pretty understandable at this stage of our lives and yet it is still pretty f---ing far from the lobotomized banality described in the article in the OP.

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Post by BeatRaven » Fri Jul 13, 2018 12:15 pm

Our 4 times a year getaway is staying at a hotel adjacent to an upscale mall. She gets her hair done; I go out to a chain restaurant with The Pussylicker. The PL has a credit card for the chain restaurant and has accrued many free meals. He never takes his GF, he's saving them up in case he ever strikes gold on tinder.

We'll pop into the LUSH store and do a Whole Foods stock up, eat some oysters. Maybe one time in five, we'll go see a movie (but seldom stay to the end) or see some music. I see no difference between this outing and being on a cruise. I refer to it as the cruise without a boat. We like the no thought/no drive aspect.

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Post by polardude1 » Fri Jul 13, 2018 12:50 pm

I'm liking my comfort much more in medium priced hotels, although I still go camping and backpacking as well. There was a time to tay in a shithole hotel of hostel and that was 30m years ago.
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Post by ManchVegas » Fri Jul 13, 2018 4:49 pm

I've always enjoyed a good old fashioned beach vacation. Flying to Honolulu and staying smack dab in the heart of Waikiki. I remember being on the plane and the guy next to me was like "What are you gonna do? Are you gonna fly over the volcano? What other Island are you going to?" And I was like "Im checking into my hotel, ordering a Mai Tai and sitting by the pool and that's what I plan to do for the next 7 days." I loved it. I did almost everything on the hotel grounds. I did get across the street because they had a $5.99 ALL-U-CAN-EAT breakfast deal going on. I also managed the tacky luau, but get this. It was indoors with central air condtioning. LOL. Why subject yourself to the elements when you don't have to?
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Post by Electrolyte » Fri Jul 13, 2018 9:25 pm

BeatRaven wrote:
Fri Jul 13, 2018 12:15 pm
I see no difference between this outing and being on a cruise.
The price.

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Post by BeatRaven » Fri Jul 13, 2018 9:37 pm

Basic cruise is like $400 a day, a couple. I spend more than that on my boatless cruise by staying at a Marriott and going out to eat at The Palm. Love their crab meat cocktails and their bold wine list, and boom! we're at like $140 right there. Call it $200 all in with the parking, maid tip, and tax for the hotel. Not hard to drop another $200 on food and buying stuff in 24 hours.

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Post by cuchulainn » Sat Jul 14, 2018 3:56 am

Camping only if there are dangerous wild animals in the area. Otherwise I’d rather sleep in a bed.
When I was 15, my parents took me and my eight siblings from Michigan to Yellowstone on a three week camping trip. Although we stayed in cabins in Yellowstone it was sleeping in tents for two weeks. Other times we would go on shorter trips, such as to Mammoth Cave or the Upper Peninsula. Mostly we stayed in tents. Two of my brothers and I had to set up the canopy tent over the picnic table and our tent, then we could explore.
I can still set up a tent quickly.
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Post by Electrolyte » Sun Jul 15, 2018 10:27 pm

BeatRaven wrote:
Fri Jul 13, 2018 9:37 pm
Not hard to drop another $200 on food and buying stuff in 24 hours.
All that will cost you extra on the boat too.

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Post by muthafunky » Sun Jul 15, 2018 11:15 pm

The combination of being older, married, with kids, and having a lot more money than I used to means seeking comfort to a much greater degree.

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Post by leela » Mon Jul 16, 2018 10:28 am

I still enjoy adventure, staying in hostels (private rooms though), and the "why on earth am I doing this?" sort of journeys. But I also find myself thinking that getting a flight to some nice Mediterranean location, renting a holiday home and doing next to nothing would be perfect, at times.

But cruises and 5* hotels don't do it for me as the focus for travel. We've had the occasional night or two in a fancy ass place for city stopovers on the way to Australia, and they were fun experiences for us as a family. But they would seem very impersonal for me I think, over a longer period and as a single person.
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Post by BeatRaven » Mon Jul 16, 2018 11:11 am

Nah, cruise is $400 a couple with the unlimited drinks package. Didn't spend a dime otherwise.

Cruise is a great value for what you get (just not what I want). That's why it crushes all travel competition and runs over the LonelyPlanet-type travel we love (or loved) like a tank, popularity-wise. Net/net, a cruise is even cheaper than an all-inclusive resort. Downside: being so cheap, the gentle upselling is constant.

Leela points out that when you're solo, you tend to want to keep moving and most luxury vacations are pretty static.

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Post by EMG » Mon Jul 16, 2018 11:27 am

I'd still prefer a resort or just a nice hotel somewhere like Hong Kong than a cruise. I actually enjoyed the first 24-48 hours or so of the one cruise I did, but I got bored pretty quickly of drinking alcohol and sitting in a crowded swimming pool while waiting for the next 8 hour stopover at some port somewhere.

But it does seem to hook a certain type of person. I know one couple from the US and every year they go on a cruise. I think they've even done the same one twice. That's the only travel they do and the only times they've left the US. The wife contacted me to ask for "travel tips" before their first cruise.

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Post by BeatRaven » Mon Jul 16, 2018 11:37 am

I underestimated how much I would enjoy being at see, staring at the watery horizon.

But the big cruise attraction is the social aspect, of sitting around a table asking people where they hail from. Other than the (many, many) black Trump supporters, I avoided that like the plague.

"Travel Tips" for a cruise are mostly about packing and how to beat the coke dispensing bar code on the bottom of the cup problem. If you retain your soda mug from the last cruise, you can probably refill it for free on the next one. I thought that was genius.

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Post by GLimpet » Mon Jul 16, 2018 2:12 pm

You can't get cruises for less than 5 nights here and they are rare. It's more like 9 nights minimum with most.

I'd like it for 3 nights I think.

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Post by ManchVegas » Mon Jul 16, 2018 2:18 pm

I did a Royal Carribean cruise and it was OK. Not really a fan though. The return to port is a nightmare. They want you up at like 5 so they can turn the ship around. That alone is a no-go for me. I'll take the typcial "Get on a plane, reservation at the Sheraton Waikiki, do almost everything onsite" type of vacation over a cruise anyday.
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Post by BeatRaven » Mon Jul 16, 2018 3:10 pm

I think a longer cruise is better. It takes 3-4 day to get into the whole boat bubble world thing and then you do enjoy intense relaxation due to the careful erasure of all dissonance.

2Dogs talked about taking a long repositioning cruise and I can see the appeal. I accompanied my shipping container over to England and it was a very chill week.

I killed a week in Waikiki recently and while it was def a one and done for me, it was preferable to a cruise, tho similar in the ultra cheery tourist handling. Some nice retro jap meals, but mostly like being stuck in Jungle Phoenix Arizona.

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Post by ManchVegas » Mon Jul 16, 2018 3:57 pm

Yeah, It's a concrete jungle for sure. But if you're just looking for guaranteed good weather and laying by a pool it's great. The over building of hotels means you can also score a good deal on a room. The only thing that sucks is the flight if you're on the east coast. It is fucking long.

I found the food options to be excellent and cheap depending on where you went. There was a great Japanese curry chain. Don't know if it's still there but it had one of those cut outs that you stick your head through.
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Post by muthafunky » Mon Jul 16, 2018 4:20 pm

I did the week cruise to Alaska. It was nice, I enjoyed just chilling on a balcony room with friends. It’s been years, but I remember it being a lot more expensive than $200 per person per day.

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Post by BeatRaven » Mon Jul 16, 2018 5:17 pm

Def. a balcony room cruising Alaska costs more than a steerage room in cheapskate Caribb land. That's a no brainer.

Yeah, they still have that cut out curry place, like 2 streets back from the main drag. Didn't go, went more for retro-butterfish in a clay pot.

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Post by ManchVegas » Mon Jul 16, 2018 5:59 pm

That curry place was really good. The minute you walk in they yell something at you in Japanese. I'm guessing it's something like "Welcome to the House of Curry!" I got the cutlet with sauce, rice and green salad. It was served lightening fast. The staff was so attentive. I noticed that every time I looked at the chef he looked back at me. That must be a Japanese thing. It makes cruising another guy difficult. American men are so oblivious when I do that.
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Post by BeatRaven » Mon Jul 16, 2018 6:07 pm

It's still like a tenner. But pork and cheap curry sauce is not a me thing.

I went to the world's largest Panda Express. The turnover on the orange chicken was constant -right out of the wok, like you'd want it.

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Post by ManchVegas » Mon Jul 16, 2018 7:28 pm

Jesus H. This is all making me hangry.

When did that become a thing BTW? Hangry?
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