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Jono In Adelaide

Postby Purps » Fri Sep 05, 2014 9:38 am

I woke up to the worst news on FB today. Jono has died. We have lost one of the finest members we have. This is just terrible news. I was not lucky enough to have met him in person but we were planning to when he came back to Aelaide. He sent me such kind messages after the sudden death of my husband. The world has lost a truly great man. Just devastated today. :(

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby erkat » Fri Sep 05, 2014 9:51 am

He was someone I never met, or really interacted with much, but we had quite a few mutual friends on FB so I'd always see his comments and he seemed such a decent guy. I remember him back from the tree days, as well as his posts here.

It just popped up on my feed due to a mutual friend commenting, and like you I was stunned. Far, far too soon to lose someone who seemed so lovely.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby GayTurk_Izmir » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:00 am

I do not understand,what happened ? How did he die ? was he sick ? I am very upset,this is sad news.I thought he was doing very well,never heard of any health problems...or if he had he did not mention them.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Bluedoglover » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:05 am

I just posted my version without seeing your post, Purps. I messaged his brother in law, when I hear back, I'll post an update. I met Jono at a pissup at Patrik's place and I can honestly say, he was one of the nicest people I have ever had the pleasure to meet. Such a total gentleman.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Purps » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:06 am

I don't know GTI. It looks like he went missing then was found dead. I messaged his brother in law, but he didn't say what happened.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Ryan » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:08 am

That's terrible news. He was one of the good guys on this board. A lovely, genuine and thoughtful bloke.

Purps - if you have any information you could pm to me, this would be much appreciated.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Herc » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:13 am

What in the fuck?

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Purps » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:18 am

It's too f**ked up for words.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Bluedoglover » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:22 am

I just got a message from Jono's brother in law. He took an overdose last night to end his life.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Geece » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:23 am

Jesus christ. Can't believe this.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Purps » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:24 am

Oh nooo. That's awful news.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby koolhass » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:34 am

I was left numb when I learnt about this on facebook. Even though I never had the chance of meeting Jono in person, I remember him with the greatest affection. A gentle giant.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby rezuar » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:36 am

This is awful news. I never met Jono, but he always came across as very kind and intelligent poster.
I also remember him saying that he had struggled with depression... :(
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby dr. manos » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:41 am

RIP Jono.. I was talking to him a few days ago on facebook about, what else, travel plans and advice. Didn't manage to meet him on time, I hope his loved ones are doing alright, I'll always remember him as one of the kindest and most intelligent people I met online.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby polardude1 » Fri Sep 05, 2014 10:58 am

This is incredibly sad. I never met Jono in person, but he came has such a good soul. He was young. What happened? RIP, Jono, What a shock.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Wilster » Fri Sep 05, 2014 11:00 am

That's terrible to read! I know he was quite depressed after his mom had passed, and maybe had battled some depression on and off in the past before that, and I believe was late (later than perhaps he wanted) to finally come out. I also remember he was trying to get medical (drug help, don't know about counseling et al) help and had thought he was doing okay. When flying into Adelaide after his mother had died, I had PMed him a month or so before going, offering to help him with anything when I was there with his mom's passing; never heard back from him...and I think it was a pretty long while before I saw him again back on the Stew.

But when he was back, was great to "see" him again online. I remember Jono as always a poster of reason, just a straight up kinda guy. A guy you'd wanna have a beer with, want in your circle. Fritz 101 and Dallan were two that were part of all of each other's on travels to SEA. I also remember Jono as a sense of reason when it came to the whole thaires-affair; never passing too much if any judgement. I admired that in him.

I'm not a religious person, but liked the reading of this poem at my brother's memorial; I think of this Jono too in this one:

god's garden

God looked around his garden,
And found an empty place,
He then looked down upon the earth
And saw your tired face.
He put his arms around you
And lifted you to rest.
God's garden must be beautiful
He always takes the best.
He knew that you were suffering
He knew you were in pain.
He knew that you would never
Get well on earth again.
He saw the road was getting rough
And the hills were hard to climb.
So he closed your weary eyelids
And whispered, 'Peace be Thine'.
It broke our hearts to lose you
But you didn't go alone,
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home

Also Purps, sorry about your loss. I had heard about it via Ms Wilster and her social media when we were away a couple weeks ago.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Troll_Handle » Fri Sep 05, 2014 11:03 am

How very sad. Such a nice poster, it's awful that he committed suicide. Sorry for the loss to all those who were close to him.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Geece » Fri Sep 05, 2014 11:05 am

Wilster wrote:Fritz 101 and Dallan were two that were part of all of each other's on travels to SEA

This is one of the things i remember about him. He tried to get me to join them on trip to SEA once upon a time.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby GLimpet » Fri Sep 05, 2014 12:01 pm

This is a shock. He was a good-natured and articulate presence online, and had been around the LP/TT/YC for many years.

I hope we were a pleasant respite from whatever despair he was feeling.

Please pass on our condolences if you are messaging his family.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby desertstorm » Fri Sep 05, 2014 12:13 pm

Sad and sorry. He was one of the good ones.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Argonheart_Po » Fri Sep 05, 2014 12:21 pm

Sad news.

I met Jono in Bangkok. He was about the nicest guy on here.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Bluedoglover » Fri Sep 05, 2014 12:26 pm

I sent the link to this thread to Jono's family. They read the posts and asked me to thank everybody for their nice comments. They made his sister proud! They especially liked Wilster's poem.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Chip_Oatley » Fri Sep 05, 2014 12:30 pm

I'm so sorry to hear this. I was just thinking about him this week. Jono and I had joined a fitness buddies site a while back, intending to keep each other on track.

Rest in peace, Jono, and my condolences to his friends and family.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Godjira » Fri Sep 05, 2014 12:33 pm

What happened?

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby cuchulainn » Fri Sep 05, 2014 12:34 pm

Poor guy.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby polardude1 » Fri Sep 05, 2014 12:41 pm

Maybe my favorite person on the Stew ever. What a wonderful person he was.

I think we all felt the same way.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Steve_in_Exile » Fri Sep 05, 2014 12:54 pm

What a tragedy. Jono was an incredibly decent guy, I never heard him say a mean word to anyone on here, even when in disagreement over a topic. I think he was in his early 40's, and as others have mentioned, the death of his mom was very hard for him. He disappeared from this site for a couple of years around the time she died, and following her death, and he did make references to his own depression and agoraphobia. But it seemed like he had pulled out of all that to a large extent a few years ago, and was doing much better, and he had been posting consistently over the last few years. And then he stopped posting again several months back, and now this. So sad.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby mishmish » Fri Sep 05, 2014 1:07 pm

Oh my god, wtf that's horrible. What a loss. Jono was a true sweetheart and the voice of sanity around here. A real rarity. Really highlights how little we know about what makes board citizens tick. Gonna miss him.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby The Mallard Missie » Fri Sep 05, 2014 1:08 pm

This is just a fleeting return, in response to an email I received today from Bashtard, informing me of this awful news.

Again, I never met him in person, but, online, we went back years, to the Lonely Plagiarist days, which seems like a different era now. More recently, though still some months back, we exchanged messages on here regarding the loss of my son, depression, etc. He was very kind and understanding.

If any of his family reads this, I offer my deepest sympathies and am extremely upset by the news.


RIP Jono. :(

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby polardude1 » Fri Sep 05, 2014 1:22 pm

I just got a message from Jono's brother in law. He took an overdose last night to end his life.


I just read ths part. Poor Jono. I feel terrible for all the suffeirng he went through. Please, plesae send hows family our deepest condolences. Steve;s right, he never spoke ill of anyone. He seemed to confront unpleasant posts swith a touch of humor. It would have been great to meet him in person
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby pezworld » Fri Sep 05, 2014 1:41 pm

I am so sad. I really felt a simpatico with him - I guess he had that effect on many here. I was convinced we'd meet someday.

I'll admit I've been a bit worried about him lately.
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Postby incognita » Fri Sep 05, 2014 1:43 pm

RIP Jono, I hope you can find some peace now. He really was one of the nicest people on this forum.
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Postby Higgs Bossom » Fri Sep 05, 2014 2:09 pm

Terrible news. My condolences to his family and friends.

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Postby northern_goddess » Fri Sep 05, 2014 2:16 pm

Such very sad news. Jono was one of the good guys. Rest In Peace, Jono.
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Postby coffeeguy » Fri Sep 05, 2014 2:52 pm

Jono was a quality guy and and a 100% class act. Sorry to hear such terrible news.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Scrubb » Fri Sep 05, 2014 2:52 pm

What distressing news - I knew he had struggled with depression in the past, but his recent facebook posts didn't come accross as troubled. He'd had a great trip to SEA in the past few months, where he had close friends, and I think he'd just bought a house, too. I am so sad that he could not find peace any longer - he was a lovely person.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby snowgirl » Fri Sep 05, 2014 2:54 pm

I saw Blue's thread before I saw this one. Thank you purps and Blue for sharing this sad news with us. It just breaks my heart that some people suffer so much that taking their own life seems the preferable course of action. My sincere condolences to his family and loved ones.
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Postby Citizen Baba » Fri Sep 05, 2014 2:54 pm

In this place of shit-slinging, Jono rose above it.

He was quite open that he had some issues and was on xanax and/or valium, but I thought he was doing well, went back to school, etc.

This is miserable news.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby soda 3.0 » Fri Sep 05, 2014 2:58 pm

As others have said - he was always above the shit-slinging. I could never figure out how he did that!!

He was one of VERY few posters who seemed to be liked and respected by anyone and everyone.

I thought he was doing well, also. He always seemed very chipper when we touched base on Facebook...
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby spampants » Fri Sep 05, 2014 2:59 pm

Jono was consistently the nicest, most genuine person in this often-nasty shitfight. What a terrible thing. We spoke on the phone during one of my drunken postings of my phone number seven or so years ago. What a sweet guy.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby RichD » Fri Sep 05, 2014 3:01 pm

Jono - goodbye.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Kikilamour » Fri Sep 05, 2014 3:07 pm

jesus fucking christ, this is sad news. you just never know, do you, what is going on behind the scenes and what you could have done to help if you had known?
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby Citizen Baba » Fri Sep 05, 2014 3:08 pm

He de-friended me on Facebook, which is okay. I'd de-friend me too.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby cultureshock » Fri Sep 05, 2014 3:27 pm

hope questions are not out of line.
i really liked jono, never once did i witness him provoking other posters, just looked for good conversations.
how old was he, wife, kids etc?

it's strange how you can feel like you know somebody you've never met, yet truly know nothing about them.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby bundes » Fri Sep 05, 2014 3:30 pm

How terribly sad.
RIP Jono.

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby veronica_inheels » Fri Sep 05, 2014 3:30 pm

What horrible news.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby pezworld » Fri Sep 05, 2014 3:31 pm

Early 40s, no wife, came out as gay 7 or 8 years ago I imagine. No kids.
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Postby cultureshock » Fri Sep 05, 2014 3:32 pm

thanx pez.
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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby cowtown » Fri Sep 05, 2014 3:36 pm

Completely stunned.

I was lucky enough to have meet him, we had a blast.

Nice, fun guy with a great sense of humor

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Re: Jono In Adelaide

Postby eric84 » Fri Sep 05, 2014 3:37 pm

Wow, what terrible news. As others have said, I thought he has successfully battled his demons. Seems terribly unfair that such an unfailingly nice guy should die.
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